The Dictator vs The Free World

Ladies moral justice is something that is in born. It is something that you grow up being told and even then you are already aware of the differences between right and wrong. Watched a recent Eddie Griffin show and he was like why would one need a whole book (Bible) to tell them difference between right and wrong. For getting that The Bible is a thousand old manuscript that has been edited through generations each adding their own account of things. So in the end The Bible is basically the account of men written down by a select few individuals and even their thoughts have been manipulated to suit current generations.

I am starting to feel that as humans maybe we underestimate God and His powers to a point that’s almost blasphemous. Surely He did not intend for us do be told what to do, He did not intend for us to dictate ways in which we can gain our faith to each other. Rather the experience than through teaching. I mean look at it this way experience is after all the greatest teacher. Dictation has proved that it does not suffice. Leaders of the free world have proved that democracy works. Giving on the power to choose what and who they want to be, as well as who should rule them. This, I believe, was Gods plan for us. We are the only animals on this planet capable of democracy but we taint it.

Religion has become a dictatorship but it should not be. It should be the freedom to express ones self spiritually in whatever they believe. Whether its God, Bhudda, Alah…at the end of the day its all belief in a higher power. So who are we to dictate what people should freely express. This is not God’s plan. We underestimate out Creator and we disappoint Him with these monarchs we now call religion.
I don’t believe in atheists, because every man believes in something even if its them selves. We all need a bit of belief and faith to carry on day by day.

There is no fun in forever I would rather live day by day with each moment cherished like its the last.

My Facade, My Bravado

In everyone’s life we reach that point of self actualization. The discovery of ones self and the finding of my inner me basically. Usually people go on a journey to try find themselves and who they really are because let’s face it, all we want in this world is to belong and some times that’s just harder than it seems.

I’m tired of the whole male bravado facade I’ve been carrying for the past two years. I’m tired of being someone that hurts people with sharp worlds that pierce hearts and souls. I’m tired of being perceived to be of a certain nature when I’m not. My mother raised me better than this I believe. She raised me to be a gentleman, a lover of all things beautiful. What would she think if she saw the man that I have become. Sometimes I look in the mirror and I really don’t feel like the man starring right back at me is me. I have managed to create such a male chauvinist character for myself that its what I’m recognized by.

I am a man, I am not afraid to cry when I’m hurt and I am not afraid to feel when I’m supposed. I am not afraid to care for others who wouldn’t show the same care to me. So what went wrong. What do I fear most. What made me the person I am today. What momentous event took place for me to be derailed from the path I have been walking on for the past 18 years of my life.

I wish I had the answers to all theses questions. I wish I could go back in time and do things right. I wish I could be me, the real me. I want to be me again. I have managed to rack up a considerable number of broken hearts and broken friendships. I wish I could take back all those unnecessary words that I said to deliberately inflict pain on others back. I wish my foul mouth and some what toxic brain could be wiped clean. I wish my slate could be wiped clean and all my sins forgiven. I want to start over. I want to wake up tomorrow a new man. With morals and dreams.

But I am a coward. I have built such a hard shell around my heart that it refuses to go back to its vulnerable state. I don’t think being vulnerable makes you weak anymore. After careful thought I actually think it makes you wiser and stronger. ” No pain, no gain” right and what better way to experience all of this than to feel pain, Than to indulge in life. Don’t hold back no matter what. If you love, love with all your heart, if you care, care so much it defeats.

I’m tired. I’ve lived through too many things to be doubting life.

Life’s to short to be a dick.

Laws To Dream Selling

Law #1: Keep your mouth shut and your ears open.

This is very crucial in dream selling. You have to sell the dream to yourself before you can sell it to someone else.
You have no idea if what you’re offering is of any use to your prospect. So until you do you have to have a whole catalog of dreams piled up for any unsuspecting buyer.

Law #2: Sell with questions, not answers

Remember this: Nobody cares how great you are until they understand how great you think they are.
Forget about trying to sell your dreams in general and focus on what dream to sell. Not all women want the same thing and until you understand than you will not get any of them. The dream should b e tailored for them.
In this day and age no woman wants loose clothing so neither should they have loose dreams. Sell what they want not what you got.

Law #3: Pretend you’re on a first date with your prospect.

When you learn what your customers need and you stop trying to convince or persuade them to do something they may not want to do, you’ll find them trusting you as a valued advisor and wanting to do more business with you as a result. The dream will be successfully sold at this point but that’s not all there is always more.

These are the only laws I can expose the rest, are for me and me alone. Enjoy and happy dream selling. Women love dreams.

Beer

A Good Guy Is Not Always A Christian

It has come to my attention that you women have made the biggest mistake in judging someone. Now someone correct me if I’m wrong but you will hear a woman say ” I want a good Christian man.” now juts because Christianity represents the religion of The Creator Himself does not mean that every other guy is not, how can I say that equal to a Christian man.

You act as if because on is Christian they are compelled to do good, Christians are also singers and I know people will be like they repent and all that but a snake is a snake whether it only feeds on rats and rodents or whether it goes after larger prey. So don’t fool yourself a good man is a good man whether he is Jewish, Christian or even if he prays to a frog he is still a good man. Do you really believe that God will take all of “us” Christians into heaven.

Humans weren’t put on this to be perfect otherwise God would have made us so. I believe he made us with faults and with the ability to do wrong it’s what makes us unique. We have the power to make a conscious decision between what’s wrong and what’s right. Judging moral justice through religion does not make sense to me. Women be sitting there saying no guys I can’t handle a man whose not Christian and then you are basically out here saying you want a gay friend.

If there is one thing I hate in my life it’s hypocrites so if you wanna come to me with that I want a Christian man bullshit you better be a virgin for one and two every guy you dated has to be Christian and the only reason those relationships should have failed should be because they died.

A good man is a good man, religion has nothing to do with it. Thank you.

Role Model

Aristotle, Bill Gates, Superman… These are people you would expect your child to look up too with amazement and pure disbelief at their ever glowing aura of goodness, justice and self imposed righteousness. These are people you would normally associate with the words role model. So where did I go wrong because I’m starting believe that somewhere in this entanglement of human DNA and features that I was genetically coded to be a screw up. I was destined for no destiny at all. My only fame being the fact that I don’t have any at all. I am that guy. The perfect asshole.

I mean my role models express exactly the same points in life that I live by to this very date. I can’t be pressured by society into believing that they are certain people I should look up to and admire, the so called modern day heroes. Well let me stick a needle in some peoples balloons you are all to high on life to realize anything. No hero in the history of movies and countless novels has ever gotten the girl. Superman probably died a virgin. Batman’s girls always die and spiderman doesn’t have the time for all the women in his life.

It can’t be done gentleman, you can’t be the hero and still get the girl. Be the villain, be that guy. Not the role model but the example because in life people won’t remember all the good you have done for them. They will remember all the bad moments, the pain you caused and the bad experiences you have been through. It’s true bad memories outlast the good one because they stick. Pleas tell me who you remember more and be true to yourself. Who do you remember more Batman or Heath Ledger as The Joker, who gets more recognition Batman or Bain ….. Take a second to think about it while I take a leak bye